Unless he informed you or gave you the chance to participate in these activities, it was not an honest act on his part.
He also brushed off a chance to set the record straight without lying.
That way you have the opportunity to say, "Yes, I'll do that," or, "No, I won't." You can also ask what prompted him to think that he was doing right by you in this marriage by finding sexual satisfaction online.
Evaluate yourself as well: Have you been shutting him out sexually?
In a crazy way, this may end up generating sympathy for him among a certain group of voters who get the impression the press beating up on him.” Nearly as notable as Weiner’s admission Tuesday was the emergence of Abedin as a vocal defender of her husband in spite of his past behavior.
She stood beside Weiner with a smile on her face as he made his opening statements, and in a surprising turn, took the podium to make her own moving speech that will be the defining moment of the campaign.
Second, there's the issue of expectations you two have not discussed.
This situation underlines the importance of checking in with one's spouse or partner about the various aspects of long-term relationships: finances, in-laws, jobs, children (if any), housekeeping, plans, and sex. So, even though you said your vows and have been together for a while, it sounds like the topic of online chatting and surfing porn sites never came up.
“I’m very happy in my present life,” Weiner said in that interview.
“For those who haven’t made up their minds, I don’t think they are as concerned with the question of when he stopped doing it.
The issue is whether they are going to be concerned with his doing it at all.
“Anthony has spent every day since [the scandal] trying to be the best dad and husband he can be,” added Abedin.
The anonymous tipster told The Dirty she first started talking to Weiner on July 12, 2012. But Weiner said the timing of the behavior was irrelevant.“The resignation was not a point in time that was nearly as important to my wife and me as the challenges in our marriage,” he said.