They’re working out, they’re shopping, they’re enjoying their meal at a cafe.
The only thing you need to do is to live your life.
There is no future dating a married man, it's akso a sin. to his wife, You need to think ask your self would you want it to happen to you , Galatian chapter 5 be not decievd whatsoever a an soweth he shall also reap think about it, and ask God to help you move on in your life, i am sure there are many single men that would love to date you and plan a future, every lady wants marriage, you are block all opportunities for that to happen Having been where you are, all I can say is GET OUT NOW. What destroys families are false teachings putting woman in the same level as men. Revelation 21:8 says ALL liars will have their part in the lake that burns with fire and brimstone. So funny i quoted from the bible but you dident post my comment.
If these men have "power over you" then you have given up God and his power over you. Adultery is a very serious sin, and is listed in Galatians -21 as one of the sins that "those practicing such will not inherit the kingdom of God".
I also ask help from God to help me 2 overcome all this sadness. The fact that you are asking for advice means you know you are wrong in participating.