Twitter: @Dr Suzanne L FB: facebook/Dr Suzanne Lachmann I know what you mean there Neil. Are our relationships doomed to fail or is there still some hope that things will work out alright?
I don't know what your circumstances were--whether it was you, or her, that ended the relationship--but it sucks to still be in love with the person you're no longer with. to b honest iv been tryin quite hard to convince ma ex to patch up from d past 6-7 months.. I've been with this woman for 5 years now and this is the first time we've ever broken up.
If you act on everything you feel, it's because you are choosing to block out the likely consequences, which helps irrational feelings become irrational actions.
Instead, allow yourself to experience, respect and move through your conflicting feelings by recognizing and remembering that they don't always have to make sense.
When you are overcome with those feelings, it's much easier to overlook all the stuff that was so wrong—at least temporarily. Longing for someone you once loved is normal; sometimes it’s inevitable—even when it was you who left the relationship in the first place. Your feelings may not be rational, but they are valid, and they are yours.So hard to do this and stay away when I love her deeply. Tried everything I can think of to make it work, including therapy. After that, she gets ahold of me and says she wants to try to make things work this time.